Author: BoundtoStrip

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? Dating. When I’m on the singles websites (OKCupid, etc.), I can of course be more open about my interests in kink. Depending on the website, depends on how upfront…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. As I’ve only comparatively recently consciously acknowledged that I have a sadistic side, I’m interested to revisit my masochistic elements. The last attempts over the years for people to cause me intentional pain, had resulted in…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? This very much depends on the partner. There are of course some fantasies that are more unachievable, particular those involving specific celebrities.…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? BDSM has so many draws for me. It heightens the senses, expands on trust, demands honesty, and continues to develop all those really useful things…

For me, bondage is a great tool to help the person bound let go. There’s generally no rush in any of it. There’s normally generous amounts of foreplay and afterplay. There’s support, admiration and desire in the preparation and application of any bondage. The ropes and/or bindings can feel like an embrace, holding you, helping…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. I remember getting somewhat freaked out the first time a partner blacked out from her climax, which was pretty early in my sexual history. I…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? For me, the key ethics of kink are about developing open communication, sensitivity to your partner, trust, and intimacy. You gain a greater understanding of their anatomy & physiology at many layers. You learn to connect with how…

Geek Alert Something I’ve been doing for a while, which apparently not many other people seem to do, is colour code my lengths of rope. Mainly because I like have different rope lengths for different purposes: When I’m tying, I want to be able to easily grab the right length of rope for the purpose,…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 10: What are your hard limits? For a long time, there were things that I thought were hard limits, that are now no longer the hard limits I thought they were. As long as it’s with the right person, in the right environment, at the right time, most…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. This is probably an unexpected choice, but it’s my choice all the same: Christina Perri – Humanhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5yaoMjaAmE I only saw this for the first time recently, but seemed to develop quite a crush on her as an…