Bound to Strip: a blog about my journey in bondage.

Similarly I don’t seem to switch off even when sleeping. I’ve had the kitten (in my profile pic) staying in the same house with me again for the last few weeks. It’s been pretty cold at night recently and they know my body runs pretty warm 24/7. So twice in the last week they decided…

14 years ago I was at one of the peaks of my physical health & fitness. I cycled a few kms to and from work every day, I was doing fitness classes 5 evenings a week in activities ranging from circus training, gymnastics, swimming, diving, and dance. I had what I thought was a great…

I had a dream last night, where I was getting to know someone I’d just met, and Covid was somehow fixed. We’d been chatting for a couple of hours or so, getting to know each other and our thoughts on life, etc. All very amiable conversation. Then we both got up to hug and say…

I’m excited to confirm I’m now setting up our dream workshop space (over 250 sq meters) full of all the industrial tools I’ve been using professionally in the theatre and movie industries for years. Of course because I’m a kinkster myself, you know you can be honest in your description of what you’re looking for…

I see there’s now the option to filter ‘Commercial Profiles’ in Explore K&P (much like unchecking pictures, videos, or writings). It looks as though it hides people with large numbers of followers who also have links to OF or similar. I guess this is the next stage of the plan by Fetlife to to filter…

I know within a bondage scenes you may experience wrist drop from a rope pressing on a nerve, which hopefully will only be temporary. However if one of your arms or any other body part goes randomly weak, or has an altered sensation any other time of the day, it could be a stroke (blood…

I’ve just heard harrowing news of someone I know, who in the last 24 hours has been violently attacked by their ex. The police had already been told about the harassment, locks changed, friends staying physically close daily, etc.. I won’t get into details but it is incredible they’re still alive right now. This is…

I’m looking for someone I’m attracted to on multiple levels, for rope and sexy fun times. I can host, and/or potentially come to you (I’m in the Wellington CBD). Do you have?: Do we have?: I don’t smoke, rarely drink, and I’m mostly vegan. I support your choice to be the same or otherwise. I…

Someone commented recently that I used to have people queued up to be tied by me at events, so where did I go to? 2020 not withstanding, I backed away for a bit after escaping an abusive / unhealthy relationship with two people I was living with, and subsequently dealing with the recovery of having cancer where…

A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about. I’ve been pretty quiet/non-public over the last year and a bit. After being initially very active in the local scene, I’ve more recently stopped attending many of the local kink events. I’ve mostly stopped uploading pictures too. I…