I’m looking for someone I’m attracted to on multiple levels, for rope and sexy fun times.
I can host, and/or potentially come to you (I’m in the Wellington CBD).
Do you have?:
- a warm smile from deep in the eyes
- a tactile nature with others (with their explicit consent)
- a sensitive strokable upper back & neck
- an open heart
- an inquisitive mind
- an intangible energy
Do we have?:
- bodies that hug fully
- harmonious feelings where it’s good both being near each other, and following
- the attraction and desire to do more
- aligned sexual interests and desires
I don’t smoke, rarely drink, and I’m mostly vegan. I support your choice to be the same or otherwise.
I also support:
- LGBTQIA+
- sex worker +
- ethical non-monogamy / polyamory
- the recent 420 referendum
- curiosity
I used to be conversational in NZSL. I’m slowly gaining further understanding of Te Reo.
I seem to be neurodivergent that presents in over-awareness & empathy of the people around me, plus an ongoing need for continued development & learning. For most people however this isn’t obvious, they just recognise I’m sensitive to peoples’ feelings, and that I’ve done a lot in my life so far.
For play I’m primarily a rigger / top / dom. Holding the ropes and sensuously playing with the package contained is generally where I get most joy. I do occasionally switch where it’s fun to do so with the right people.
I’m glad to be familiar with rope (western, shibari and free form), body dynamics, and I have a lot of fun toys that can be incorporated into our experiences as and when.
For us, I’m keen to explore with you, get to know what works and what doesn’t for us, and evolve whatever styles may be great for the type of play we do. Helping bring both our ongoing desires into reality. Developing regular play into weekly or once a month or so, although casually as-and-when could work too.
I’m very fortunate to be in a couple of long term platonic poly relationships with two wonderful humans I love deeply. Neither are on this site very much anymore, but they’d both be very happy to chat to you in person at whatever stage suits.
I’ve had a busy background with a lot of white / male / english-speaking / able-bodied / tall /.. privilege, work opportunities and connections to get me to where I am now. So outside the bedroom I’m currently a teacher, rigger, and a fabricator / maker.
I used to do many things. I love helping people develop, keeping active myself, creating and crafting. I’m very thankful to be able to fill my days now with doing what I love to do. I smile a lot.
If this all interests you and you think we may get along, it’ll be good to hear from you in a PM.