For me, bondage is a great tool to help the person bound let go.
- By being unable to move means you don’t have to worry about moving your body in a particular way to please someone else.
- By being gagged, means you don’t have to worry about saying the right thing, or of holding back on natural sounds as you approach your climax.
- By being blindfolded you can’t see the other person, and therefore stop worrying about how you might look yourself.
- And all of these together mean your senses of touch are massively heightened, resulting in the softest caress sending shockwaves of pleasure around your entire body.
There’s generally no rush in any of it. There’s normally generous amounts of foreplay and afterplay. There’s support, admiration and desire in the preparation and application of any bondage. The ropes and/or bindings can feel like an embrace, holding you, helping make you secure (in both levels). Plus the person doing the binding will be careful to note even the most subtle feedback you give while you’re bound.
And none of this can go ahead without trust and effective communication between both people!