A continuation of 30 days of kink
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
For a long time, there were things that I thought were hard limits, that are now no longer the hard limits I thought they were. As long as it’s with the right person, in the right environment, at the right time, most things are open to discussion really.
So although I may be happy in being without a particular kink in my life at various times, doesn’t mean I’m not into it with the right person.
I’ve discussed and experienced many things with people already, and I can certainly appreciate the reasons for many desires that are of particularly interest to you.
I’m not a fan of causing a long term injury, so will do what I can to minimise that kind of risk through a variety of methods.
Life itself is inherently unsafe in a variety of ways, particularly when you add intimate play into the mix, so ‘Risk Aware Consensual Kink’ has become more appropriate for me than the SSC acronym.
Non-consent is still a hard limit though, and I really don’t ever see that changing.
Therefore, any potential involvement of minors, forcing someone to be involved in something without their prior permission, genuine abuse, etc. is not alright.
Consensual non-consent however, is quite a different matter, but only under particular conditions with appropriate people where I know well enough to do so with. I need to look after myself as much as the person I’m with too!