Author: BoundtoStrip

  • I made a kinky card game…

    Over the Christmas and New Year holiday weekend, we had a few rope loving friends over for that interim period (where you’ve seen the family, you haven’t started the New Year celebrations, etc..) So after some regular group games, seeing as everyone present new about rope (both as a rigger and a bunny), and with…

  • Buying a new vehicle

    Earlier on this week I sold my lovely campervan for a good price, so today, I was on the hunt for a replacement vehicle. As I walked around the car lot, checking out fuel efficiency, safety, features, etc.. one of the key deciding features I kept coming back to was: ‘how could I have someone…

  • This weather is not helping..

    While it’s really bucketing with this heavy torrential downpour, does anyone else feel the urge to be outside, completely naked, and having really intense passionate sex while the rain pounds your skin? And then afterwards, while her body is still bound, hypersensitive to touch, and glistening in the wetness, to leave her there a while,…

  • The power of a neck massage

    After massaging literally thousands of necks professionally before now, I recently discovered a rather pleasing and surprising discovery. This was effectively our first play date (we’d only really met briefly before at a mutual friends’ place, but had been talking online since). We’d already previously discussed boundaries (both what was likely for today, and comfortable…

  • BDSM in keeping relationships healthy

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? To me, the necessary elements for a good BDSM, and also the key foundations of a great vanilla relationship. Too many times, I’ve seem people in vanilla…

  • Why I’m actually a fan of 50 Shades

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) 50 Shades. Yes, really. I was only able to read less than half of the first book myself, and I’m really amazed just how popular it has been throughout the world despite the poor quality. Most of the characters are…

  • Other people’s kink

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand. Over the years there have been numerous things I hadn’t been able to get my head around, so whenever that’d happened, I’d worked hard to try to understand. There are of course many more things I’d like…

  • Some of the ways that kink has improved my life

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? As a direct result of kink, the short story is I ended up owning and managing a very successful and profitable hotel for three years. The original founder posted on a kink website that…

  • Flamers

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? The flamers. The people online who intentionally instigate arguments online just to get some sort of kick out of it themselves. They clearly missed the ‘if you haven’t got anything constructive to say, don’t say anything at all’…

  • Some of the misperceptions about kink

    Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up? A continuation of 30 days of kink