BoundtoStrip

Author: BoundtoStrip

  • Day 29 – The use of titles in my kinky life.

    A much delayed continuation of 30 days of kink Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? I don’t generally use titles within BDSM. It feels unnatural with people I don’t know really well. But…

  • The results are in: I did have cancer

    On the 27th November, less than two weeks after the initial suspected discovery, my left testicle was removed. The pathology results have since been returned, along with some very cool cross-section photos, and digital copies of the internal scans. So for all those people who’ve been showing such a significant interest in my well-being, these…

  • I’d give my left testicle to learn that…

    Just a couple of weeks ago, my partner found a small lump in my left ball. It was only a few mm across, but we knew it hadn’t been there before. Within 90 minutes of the discovery, I was at my GP’s. Within 24 hours I was getting ultrasound. The afternoon after the ultrasound, my…

  • The sexiest thing you can wear is your smile

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? In private play, most of the time both of us are generally naked (apart from the various ropes and such of course). For workshops it’s more about comfort and practicality to do…

  • The ongoing links from kink to non-kink

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? The crossover for me is ongoing. Kinky activities are a big part of my personal pleasure, so I’ll often be thinking of some way to kinkify elements of most of my interests…

  • Online BDSM play (cyber, caming, sexting, live erotica, etc.)

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? It’s something I used to do (between real meetings in person), but it’s not something I do so much anymore. Back in the days of IRC chatrooms, I’d be providing self-bondage and masturbation direction for people I’d get to know…

  • Becoming out and proud about kink

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? For a long time, I’ve kept my interest in kink out of my vanilla life. I wouldn’t lie about it, but I wouldn’t be actively vocal about it too. There were effectively no obvious bridges from my vanilla life to…

  • Partner qualities

    A continuation of 30 days of kink Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner? I already have a superb partner. She’s amazing in so many ways, we’re incredibly compatible on so many levels. And it’s hard to imagine why I would be looking for anyone else : and effectively I’m not looking.…

  • The changing times of my interests in kink

    A delayed continuation of 30 days of kink Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? My very first memories of kink are from a very young age. Earlier on, I didn’t fully understand the sexual aspects of why I may enjoy it. As I look back on…

  • A fun game with a new play partner:

    (Although of course now that I’m sharing it, I won’t be able to play this game again). You’ve got to know someone, they’ve got to know you. You’ve checked references of each other. You’ve discussed what you’re going to do, limits, etc. Maybe you’ve played at events before now as well. But for the first…