(Although of course now that I’m sharing it, I won’t be able to play this game again).
You’ve got to know someone, they’ve got to know you. You’ve checked references of each other. You’ve discussed what you’re going to do, limits, etc. Maybe you’ve played at events before now as well. But for the first time, you’re alone, and you have them blindfolded, gagged, and securely bound.
You’ve been caressing their back for a bit, they’re probably still mostly clothed. You check they’re comfortable, and ask them with a smile if they can escape. They try, struggle a little with a fun wiggle, and confirm that no, this time they can’t escape.
And that’s when you take your hands away, step back, pause for a short while, and then very quietly bring your head up to just by their ear, and ask them with a lower voice, slowly and deliberately “… How well do you actually know me? …”
Then just lean back and watch them quake.
That first caress again, before you say another word (to reassure) is likely to be electric.
Disclaimer:
This is just a mind game for people into this kind of thing. Don’t overstep pre-agreed limits. Don’t sexually assult. Don’t be an idiot.
Thank you 🙂