A continuation of 30 days of kink
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
This is probably an unexpected choice, but it’s my choice all the same:
Christina Perri – Human
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5yaoMjaAmE
I only saw this for the first time recently, but seemed to develop quite a crush on her as an immediate result. I’ve been trying to work out why it struck such a chord with me so much, so here’s my theory:
She’s very attractive (an obvious answer, but really not enough in itself).
She sings the song with incredible passion and emotion, which to me is a massive attraction, and is probably a big part of it.
But then with regard to the lyrics, I clearly have my own agenda, but the opening lyrics are : “I can hold my breath, I can bite my tongue, I can stay awake for days, if that’s what you want. Be your number one” : sounds like a brief public safe summary of a great sex play weekend.
- “Hold my breath” – while she goes down you on for prolonged oral sex
- “bite my tongue” – to me I imagined her biting her bottom lip in a seductive way, but also not answering back to commands and requests made of her, like a good sub (despite her internal protests to want to respond)
- “stay awake for days” – having such an incredible weekend of play and connection, sleeping seems less of a priority.
- “if that’s what you want” – do whatever you want to me, I’m yours to do with as you want and desire.
- “be your number one” – she’s not adverse to an open/poly relationship either, threesomes or moresomes.
The song talks a bit about objectification “I can turn it on, be a good machine … be your everything”, the impression of being the best sex bot she can be, riding you for hours, being a good submissive, pleasing you sexually however she can …
“I can dance and play the part” – moving her body seductively, swaying her hips, sexy role play.
“words in my head, knives in my heart, you build me up and then I fall apart” – the sexy talk in her ear, S&M pain play (releasing adrenaline to the heart), and then slow build up, edging, and then wonderfully powerful completion of another body shattering orgasm leaving her in a collapsed heap of emotional and sexual release.
“just a little human” – which invokes the protective nature in me to look after, support, and protect her.
But the most overriding lyric, is that she is “only human” .. and that’s to me is the sexiest part – She embraces that she has flaws, she understands she can’t be the total fantasy no matter how much she tries. She’s a real person, with her own thoughts, her own dreams, her own desires. She gets hurt but she gets back up again. She’s a wonderfully complex being with multiple levels. She has a soul, she has a heart, she has a mind of her own. She’s a real person to form a real connection with : that’s the most sexy part of all.