A continuation of 30 days of kink
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
The mind.
Without connecting with their mind, there’s little I can really do with them.
But when I can understand their thoughts and desires, no other toys are necessary (but still great fun 🙂 )
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After that, would be rope. It can be used in so many different ways : from security holding her down, or up, to the feeling of fingers and hands embracing her body, multiple wraps constricting her torso like a corset, ropes around her breasts engorging the blood flow to her nipples. It can be used for sensation play (from whipping, to the gentlest caress). Gags. Blindfolds. Crotch ropes. Decoration. Stretching her out. Holding her tightly in a ball. Whatever position can be imagined, rope can pretty much be tied to make it happen.
The use of rope requires trust, communication, and attention. It’s about being in the moment. Heightening the awareness of both parties involved.
Whilst being bound, she can truly let go (often for the first time in ages).
It can be applied quickly, or slowly.
It can be tied tight, or it can provide freedom of movement.
It’s just so versatile, has so many options, and that’s probably why I love it so much.
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My favourite non-binding toy though, is my digital fucking machine.
During use, I can manually adjust the length of each thrust, the depth of the thrust, the speed of the movement, and the harshness of the movement, from a handy collection of four dials on a control panel, connected by a long cable.
This gives me the chance to adapting each variable to her movements and enhancing arousal. Like a conductor directing an orchestra.
She moves, I can change it. She’s edging, I can keep her there.
It never tires, and can literally keep going for hours.
As much as I’d love to have the same stamina as both her, and the machine, I do have my limits in regular play! So I’m not threatened by it, quite the opposite. This does to her what I want it to do, I control it, and of course I can swap it out for the real thing at a moment’s notice too!
There’s even some handy laptop software I can pre-program to run through a sequence of variables, as quickly or as slowly as I desire (varying moment by moment, effectively randomly if I choose) And then I can just set it in motion, and sit back to enjoy the show.
I do very much look forward to having that out of storage, and back out here with me again very soon.